Right…cutting a long story short my husband left our joint named property last june/july and has since not paid a single half of his mortgage and the council tax he had assured me he had paid.this week i recieved a letter saying i owe them 1500 and he has not paid a single installment…after phoning him he said he would sort it out now i have phoned him again to see what is happening and he has turned quite nasty i have already had bailliffs turn up this year over his debts and had to pay them off as he is refusing to give me his new address…now he is saying that he is going to force me to sell our joint house…can he do this?? also how can i get his mail redelivered to him so i am not having to sort his debt out whilst also trying to sort my own debts…we have seperated…also he owes my mum over 50000 how can i make sure he pays her back…he can get very nasty and is very difficult to talk to on the phone and i want to know how i can get this done easily as possible and as quickly….also we dont have any children
he has got the money to pay as he is moving from his rented flat into a 3 bed house…on his own for what i can gather…do i need his involvement for a legal separation?…i have asked for a divorce nd he is being difficult about it…also havnt got a solicitor atm…i dont reali no wot my rights r on house as my main residence as whether he can force a sale on not…
i have 2 b careful with the situation as he can b very nasty nd he will make my life hell as he will want me 2 suffer…i can afford just 2 pay 4 the house on my own but i just want him out of it…i have offered him if he signs house 2 me in my name i will pay off all debt he mainly owes and that will b end then we can divorce…but he got nasty…i havnt bin rude at all in this nd believe i have been mature nd polite considering
my house will never get what i deserve nd i dnt want 2 do work on it that he will b able 2 claim bk…he left place a mess with all his ‘diy’ ideas…nd it is a state im not just saying it holes everywer nd falling part…also it used 2 b my grandads nd holds lot of sentimental value that i wish 2 keep…lastly i wnt b able 2 afford 2 get anywer…arghhh im sorry it just seems a mess atm